Tag: autism
growing up autistic / growing up gaslit
I.
this is the first lesson you learn:
you are always wrong.there is no electric hum buzzing through the air.
there is no stinging bite to the sweetness of the mango.
there is no bitter metallic tang to the water.there is no cruelty in their laughter, no ambiguity in the instructions, no reason to be upset.
there is no bitter aftertaste to your sweet tea, nothing scratchy about your blanket.the lamps glow steadily. they do not falter.
II.
this is the second lesson you learn:
you are never right.you are childish, gullible, overly prone to tears.
you are pedantic, combative, deliberately obtuse.
you are lazy, unreliable, never on time.you’re always making up excuses, rudely interrupting, stepping on people’s shoes.
you’re always trying to get attention, never thinking about anyone else, selfish through and through.it’s you that’s the problem. the lamps are fine.
III.
this is the third lesson you learn:
you must always give in.mother knows best. father knows best.
doctor knows best. teacher knows best.
this is the proper path. do not go astray.listen to your elders, respect your betters, accept what’s given to you as your due.
bow to the wisdom of experience, the education of the professional, the clarity of an external point of view.what do you know about lamps, anyway?
Painful and accurate, even long since grown up.
Hans Asperger helped the Nazi’s kill autistic children.
A new study has shed more light on the revelations that Hans Asperger,
the Austrian pediatrician for whom a form of autism is named, had
collaborated with the Nazis and actively assisted in the killing of
disabled children.Published on Wednesday in the journal Molecular Autism
by the medical historian Herwig Czech, the report relies on eight years
of research that included the examination of previously unseen Nazi-era
documents.The
study concludes that though Dr. Asperger was not a member of the Nazi
Party, he had participated in the Third Reich’s child-euthanasia
program, which aimed to establish a “pure” society by eliminating those
deemed a “burden.”Dr.
Asperger was previously thought to have opposed national socialism and to have
defendedhis patients against Nazi “euthanasia”. That story ‘needs to be revised in light of the evidence’, the study revealed. Hans Asperger diagnosed children with ‘autistic psychopathy’ and referred them to the notorious Am Spiegelgrund
clinic in Vienna, where 800 children were murdered
by use of drugs of gas from 1940 to 1945.Be advised that there is ableism in the second part of source article: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/19/world/europe/hans-asperger-nazis.html
The chapter ‘conclusions’ in the study itself is not as complicated to read as you’d expect from a scientific work and can be found here: https://molecularautism.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13229-018-0208-6#Sec12
“uwu but if there was a cure for autism nobody would force you to-
Bullshit. Yes the fuck they would.
Want to get hired? Oh, you have autism? Well, we can’t hire you unless you get cured.
Want to get paid? Oh, we’re legally allowed to pay you less because you’re autistic. We can pay you a reasonable amount when you get cured!
Need accommodations? Why don’t you just get cured instead?
You know, you wouldn’t need all this therapy and assistance if you just got cured. You should just get cured!
We don’t need special care programs for autism! There’s a cure available! Just get it!
This isn’t covered by your healthcare because autism is a pre-existing condition, sorry!
My child was autistic and we didn’t want him to be, so we cured him! He didn’t want or ask for it, but we did!
Look, autism can’t be cured. But if it could, that cure would would absolutely not be a choice. It would just be disguised as optional.
Imagine someone telling you there is a cure for being you.
Thinking Person’s Guide To Autism on Twitter
Another Autism Awareness Month is Almost Here. Yay – Autism Women’s Network
(Now it actually is April – so it’s here. Title is sarcasm.)
Another Autism Awareness Month is Almost Here. Yay – Autism Women’s Network
Dylan Harrison on Twitter
“For Autism Awareness, here’s a comprehensive list of blogs by autistic people” via Steve Silberman.
Good list, do follow.
Autistic Voices: A Masterpost
Here is a list of resources about autism, with a focus on actually autistic voices, divided by topic. You will find articles, websites, videos, Youtube channels, etc., most of them created by autistic people. If there are resources you would like to contribute to this post, or if you have other suggestions, don’t hesitate to let me know.
What is autism?
Autistic Self Advocacy Network: About Autism
Autisticality: Inclusive autistic traits
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic: What is Autism?
Neurodiversity
Identity-First Autistic: The Neurodiversity Paradigm
Nick Walker: Neurodiversity: some basic terms and definitions
Nick Walker: The Neurodiversity Paradigm and the Path of Self-Liberation
Nick Walker: Throw Away the Master’s Tools: Liberating Ourselves from the Pathology Paradigm
Elisabeth Wiklander: Neurodiversity — the key that unlocked my world
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic: What is Neurodiversity
Identity-first language vs person-first language
Autistic Self Advocacy Network: Identity-First Language
Nathan Selove: Autism ACTUALLY Speaking: Person First Language
Autistic Hoya: The Significance of Semantics: Person-First Language: Why It Matters
Social model of disability vs medical model of disability
Identity-First Autistic: Understanding Disability Models
Autistic Hoya: You are not a burden.
Nathan Selove: Autism ACTUALLY Speaking: Models of Disability Discourse
Nathan Selove: Creating A Social Model of Autism
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #16: Is Autism a Disability?
Functioning labels
Identity-First Autistic: Identity-First Autistic’s stance on ‘functioning labels’
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic: What about Functioning Labels?
autisticliving: What’s Wrong with Functioning Labels? A Masterpost.
Nathan Selove: Autistic ACTUALLY Speaking: High Functioning versus Low Functioning
AUTISTIC WEREWOLF: WHY LABELS EXPECIALLY HIGH & LOW FUNCTIONING AUTISM IS ARE A LOAD OF CRAP! (cw: use of the R-word)
Thinking Person’s Guide to Autism: The Problems with Functioning Labels
Autistic women
Reese Piper: ‘I Thought I Was Lazy’: The Invisible Day-To-Day Struggle For Autistic Women
Fabienne Cazalis: The women who don’t know they’re autistic
Aspergers from the Inside: Female Diagnosis and Self-Advocacy with Geraldine Robertson
Purple Ella: DIFFERENCES AUTISTIC BOYS AND GIRLS
Seventh Voice: The Gas-lighting of Women and Girls on the Autism Spectrum
SuicideAutisticNomad: Speaking to Suicidal Autistics
Science Daily: Coventry University: People with Autism at Greater Risk of Attempting Suicide
Dan Jones: Autism: Diagnosis Saved My Life
Empathy
Nathan Selove: Autism ACTUALLY Speaking: Empathy
Luna Lindsey: Double-Standards: The Irony of Empathy and Autism
Intersectional Neurodiversity: New Research Suggests Social Issues Are Down to Neurotypicals More than Autistics
Self-advocacy
Nathan Selove: Autism ACTUALLY Speaking: Self Advocacy
Amythest Schaber: Autistics Speaking: Self-Advocacy in a Culture of Cure
Autistic Hoya: What is Self-Advocacy?
Executive functionReese Piper: ‘I Thought I Was Lazy’: The Invisible Day-To-Day Struggle For Autistic Women
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #25: What is Executive Functioning?
Aspergers from the Inside: Executive Function (a response to Ask an Autistic)
Purple Ella: AUTISM AND EXECUTIVE FUNCTIONING
Special interests
Musings of an Aspie: What’s So Special About a Special Interest?
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #13 – What are Special Interests?
Stimming
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #1 – What is Stimming?
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic: Living Atypically – Self-Injurious Stims
The Artism Spectrum: Stimming 101, or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Stim
The Artism Spectrum: The Dark Side of the Stim: Self-injury and Destructive Habits
Meltdowns
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #15 – What are Autistic Meltdowns?
Unstrange Minds: The Protective Gift of Meltdowns
Purple Ella: DEALING WITH MELTDOWNS
Shutdowns
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #20 – What are Autistic Shutdowns?
Unstrange Mind: Autistic Shutdown Alters Brain Function
Passing
AUTISTIC WEREWOLF: ANOTHER WAY AUTISTIC WEREWOLVES HIDE IN THIS NEUROTYPICAL WORLD!
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #2 – What is Passing?
Autistic burnout
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #3 – What is Autistic Burnout?
Musings of an Aspie: Autistic Regression and Fluid Adaptation
Autism Information Library: “Help! I seem to be Getting More Autistic!”
Inertia
Divergent Minds: A Look at Autistic Inertia
Alexithymia
Unstrange Mind: Alexithymia: I Don’t Know How I Feel
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #27: What is Alexithymia?
What not to say to an autistic person
Autistic Hoya: 15 Things You Should Never Say To An Autistic
Radical Neurodivergence Speaking: What to say, and not to say, to an autistic adult
Nathan Selove: Top 5 Well Meaning Things People Should Stop Saying to Autistics
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #12 – What Shouldn’t I Say to Autistic People?
StimNation: S#!T Ignorant People Say to Autistics
Actually Autistic: 10 Things Not To Say To Autistic People
BBC Three: Things Not To Say To An Autistic Person
Non-speaking autistic voices
Amy Sequenzia: Non-speaking, “low-functioning”
Mel Baggs: Don’t ever assume autism researchers know what they’re doing
Autism $peaks/Light It Up Blue/Puzzle Piece
The Caffeinated Autistic: New Autism Speaks Masterpost (Updated 4/4/17)
The Caffeinated Autistic: Autism Speaks *still* does not speak for me
Autistic Anthro: Enough with the Puzzle Pieces
Autistic Anthro: Autism Awareness Month
Amythest Schaber: Ask an Autistic #6 – What’s Wrong With Autism Speaks
Nathan Selove: Autism ACTUALLY Speaking: Lighting Up Blue
John Elder Robinson: I Resign My Roles at Autism Speaks
Autistic Hoya: Responding to Autism Speaks
When autism parents don’t listen
Jim Sinclair: Don’t Mourn For Us
Autistic Hoya: They keep publishing these violent articles
Autistic Hoya: Why we must #BoycottToSiri / An open letter to Judith Newman
Amythest Schaber: #BoycottToSiri
Susie Rodarme: An Open Letter to HarperCollins about TO SIRI WITH LOVE
Aaron Kappel: When You’re Autistic, Abuse Is Considered Love
Thinking Person’s Guide to Autism: Autism Uncensored: A Dangerous and Spirit-Crushing Book
Service dogs and autism
Nathan Selove: Service Dog Tales
In French
A Q&A about autism with Steve Silberman, author of NeuroTribes
As a society, the history of autism makes clear that the notion that there is one best way to learn, one best way to experience the world, and one best way to be human, is bunk. That belief prevailed through most of the 20th Century, when psychiatrists elevated themselves into a position akin to secular priests. But it’s based on a false model of how human brains work, and it ends up stigmatizing and marginalizing people who have tremendous gifts to offer society.
Think about it: why would the community of human minds be less diverse than, say, a rainforest? But it isn’t. We’re part of the natural world, and nature thrives by experimenting, by fostering the development of many different types of individuals. In a rainforest, this wild riot of variety and difference makes communities of plants and animals more resilient in the face of changing conditions. As we face the challenges of the 21st Century — which include a rapidly changing global climate! — we will need many different types of minds working together. As a teacher, you’re helping to build the foundation on which the fate of humanity may depend.
A Q&A about autism with Steve Silberman, author of NeuroTribes