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Go #RedInstead for Autism Acceptance!
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A dangerous autism charity has been exposed in the UK. If you support Autism Trust UK, drop them immediately. They’re a demonic twin of Autism Speaks…hell, they might be even worse than Autism Speaks.
When you know a group like AS gets millions in donations from huge corporations, acknowledge what it really is: a disgusting moneymaking scam revolving around the ongoing abuse of autistic people.
This British Autism Charity Promoted “Dangerous” Unlicensed Treatments
As an autistic person, PLEASE refrain from reblogging content of us where we are aggressively referred to as “pure” and “good” and similar terms.
We’re no more or less good or pure than anyone else, and implying that a developmentally disabled person is somehow pure is incredibly ableist and suggests that we aren’t capable of understanding things that are bad, complex, gritty, or dark because our minds aren’t developed enough to do so.
This is the same type of thinking that enables our abuse, because people think we don’t understand what happens to us when we really do have a conscious perception of the abuse – people who think we can’t possibly know what abuse feels like don’t believe us when we say we’ve been hurt.
It’s especially dehumanizing when attached to a video, because comments like “GOOD AND PURE” are put onto videos of cute animals, and tacking the “GOOD AND PURE” comment on inspiration porn of autistic people – and other developmentally disabled people – is treating us exactly like those animals and no, it isn’t cute at all.
Have enough empathy/sympathy/decency to curate the videos you reblog please, and if a video of autistic people is treated like a video of cute kittens keep that shit off your blog for fuck’s sake.
Do any other autistic people have tips for how to stop yourself from banging your head? I’ve started doing it more and more often even though I know it’s bad for your brain to be sloshed around like that.
It depends on why you’re headbanging. Is it because of frustration/anxiety/some other negative emotion? Or are you doing it as a stim?
I used to do that a lot when I was younger and my mother would do her best to steer me to my bed, or try to place a thick pillow or duvet near my head. It was more out of stress/anxiety than stimming, though.
Do you know if you respond well to music or other self-soothing influences? If you can be redirected in someway? Someone talking quietly to me, no inflections, just specific topics (like maths) usually helped, but that isn’t for everyone. Wish I had a good response on this. If it is stress/sensory related, placing yourself in a calmer environment, dim lighting, no noise, might help. I find gentle, rhythmic noises helpful, too.
Sharing this to get other responses. Hope you find what works for you.
“If autism isn’t caused by environmental factors and is natural why didn’t we ever see it in the past?”
We did, except it wasn’t called autism it was called “Little Jonathan is a r*tarded halfwit who bangs his head on things and can’t speak so we’re taking him into the middle of the cold dark forest and leaving him there to die.”
Or “little Jonathan doesn’t talk but does a good job herding the sheep, contributes to the community in his own way, and is, all around, a decent guy.” That happened a lot, too, especially before the 19th century.
Or, backing up FURTHER
and lots of people think this very likely,
“Oh little Sionnat has obviously been taken by the fairies and they’ve left us a Changeling Child who knows too much, and asks strange questions, and uses words she shouldn’t know, and watches everything with her big dark eyes, clearly a Fairy Child and not a Human Like Us.”
The Myth of the Changeling child, a human baby apparently replaced at a young age by a toddler who “suddenly” acts “strange and fey” is an almost textbook depiction of autistic children.
To this day, “autism warrior mommies” talk about autism “stealing” their “sweet normal child” and have this idea of “getting their real baby back” which (in the face of modern science) indicates how the human psyche actually does deal with finding out their kid acts unlike what they expected.
Given this evidence, and how common we now know autism actually is, the Changeling myth is almost definitely the result of people’s confusion at the development of autistic children.
Weirdly enough, that legend is now comforting to me.
I think it’s worth noting that many like me, who are diagnosed with ASD now, would probably have been seen as just a bit odd in centuries past. I’m only a little bit autistic; I can pass for neurotypical for short periods if I work really hard at it. I have a lack of talent in social situations, and I’m prone to sensory overload or you might notice me stimming.
But here’s the thing: life is louder, brighter and more intense and confusing than it has ever been. I live on the edge of London and I rarely go into the centre of town because it’s too overwhelming. If I went back in time and lived on a farm somewhere, would anyone even notice there was anything odd about me? No police sirens, no crowded streets that go on for miles and miles, no flickery electric lights. Working on a farm has a clear routine. I’d be a badass at spinning cloth or churning butter because I find endless repetition soothing rather than boring.
I’m not trying to romanticise the past because I know it was hard, dirty work with a constant risk of premature death. I don’t actually want to be a 16th century farmer! What I’m saying is that disability exists in the context of the environment. Our environment isn’t making people autistic in the sense of some chemical causing brain damage. But we have created a modern environment which is hostile to autistic people in many ways, which effectively makes us more disabled. When you make people more disabled, you start to see more people struggling, failing at school because they’re overwhelmed, freaking out at the sound of electric hand dryers and so on. And suddenly it looks like there’s millions more autistic people than existed before.
Re: the last reply, I wonder if this could account for people discovering they’re on the spectrum as adults. When I was a kid we had two channels on the tv and no one even imagined the internet would be a household thing someday. Life didn’t bombard me with one tenth of the artificial stimuli it does now.
But we have created a modern environment which is hostile to autistic
people in many ways, which effectively makes us more disabled.
Profound statement, this.
can ppl like stop doing annoying guilt trippy bullshit to ppl who are touch repulsed/sensitive lmao
(AUTO) I have been through a lot in my life, but I finally understand I am not alone and there are others who see the world like I do. That makes life just a little bit easier.
‘After what I’ve been through, don’t tell me I’m not autistic’
Non-autistic people see autism as a great tragedy, and parents experience continuing disappointment and grief at all stages of the child’s and family’s life cycle. But this grief does not stem from the child’s autism in itself. It is grief over the loss of the normal child the parents had hoped and expected to have … There’s no normal child hidden behind the autism. Autism is a way of being. It is pervasive; it colors every experience, every sensation, perception, thought, emotion, and encounter, every aspect of existence. It is not possible to separate the autism from the person—and if it were possible, the person you’d have left would not be the same person you started with. This is important, so take a moment to consider it: Autism is a way of being. It is not possible to separate the person from the autism.
Jim Sinclair, quoted from the Wikipedia article on neurodiversity. (via taiganaut)
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