oneman-wolfpackk:

fag:

broke ppl can have expensive things. they can have nice phones. they can receive gifts. they can finance expensive items. people don’t have to justify all of their belongings just cause u freaks can’t understand wht its like. shut up

this girl on fb ranted about how she saw a homeless person with an iphone, and then began to belittle him and call him a “fake homeless person”… i told her that God forbid she is ever in that situation. she could lose her home and still have her iphone. she could be desperate enough to ask for money and others could call her struggles “fake” just like she did. all because she still has her iphone. not every person you see asking for help is homeless. i volunteer to feed those in need on thanksgiving and i have come across so many people who have iphones but are homeless and are just down on their luck. i even met a black man who has his own business but somehow lost his home. he is very educated and has his own name embroidered on his work shirts. they were official and everything. struggling doesn’t only mean “oh they don’t have a home”. there are so many different kinds of struggles. sometimes they are just down on their luck and that’s it. you just cannot judge. you have no clue. you never know.

Oh yes, please read this and pass it on.  Why do the homeless get so much crap if they actually still have a few things?  Is there some requirement that in order to be ‘truly homeless’ you must have absolutely nothing?  How horrible an attitude is that?  

Are people aware there are programmes available that give underprivileged persons access to things like cell phones, computers, clothing?   

Instead of being judgmental and lazy-minded, why not recognise the dignity of another human being and treat them with respect and maybe find ways to help improve the lives of others?  

There’s enough ugliness out there.  We can afford to offer up some kindness.

elyciasface:

longlivetheheda:

everybodyhatesjroth:

hey I’ve gotten a bunch of messages asking me if I have people supporting me tomorrow after 316 and telling me to make sure to take care of myself and I just want you all to know that that means a lot to me, and I promise I will do that, but please know that I am available tomorrow night to talk if you need it. please don’t hesitate to contact me if you feel like I’m too busy or I don’t need to be burdened with more people because that’s not it at all. also I get to see @longlivetheheda on Friday so I promise you guys I’ll be fine 😉

Feel free to talk to me too guys. I won’t be watching the ep but I’m here for all of you whether you decide to watch or not.

me three friends

More 3×16 support.  

3×16 Support

I worked with a lot of kids after 3×07, so many triggered into self-harm, depression, damaged self-esteem, even suicidal thoughts.  So many for whom Lexa was a beacon, a positive representation, cruelly stolen.  These are kids who struggle with trying to represent themselves, triggered by the disdain of those who simply do not care, by society and industry that still won’t recognise them, or just uses them, or by those who would rather be petty about a ‘ship’ instead of trying to understand (much less support) a minority that has so little on their side. 

I know it’s been hard for some to empathise with the snark, the anger, the ‘negativity’ of some (and yes, we’ve got some seriously messed up messages on all sides), but please, if you can, put that aside for a bit and try to show some supportive behaviour as the last episode airs.  If you know of kids who have been triggered, who are hurting, share a hug, even if just in a virtual sense, it doesn’t have to be much.  Share support lines.  Offer to watch for someone and give them a good opinion on whether they might be triggered or not.  A little kindness can do so much good.  

I’ll be posting support network numbers for tomorrow, if you can, please share them.   

And if you are friends with Bellarke fans, maybe you could reach out to them too, and ask them for what they’d like if the tables were turned.  There is a positive side to that fandom and a toxic one, too.  Maybe those positive voices could help wash out the negative.  Mocking kids over what they care about (and this goes in all directions) shouldn’t be what defines anyone.  For one night, at least, there can be a truce.  

Be safe, be kind.