Found myself angry today at the umpteenth reblog of a post that basically reduced the good and honourable deeds of the Clexa fandom into egotistical bragging rights over the number of notes they have on their posts vs. BeIIarke fans. The post(s) was a pile-on of bludgeoning a blarke in question with so many ‘Look! We’ve got more than you! You could never! Neener Neener Neener’ moments it was absurd and ugly, from the beginning.
They reduced the good and honourable deeds of the Clexa fandom into weapons for a shipping war. Into ego-driven bragging. Into a shallow pursuit of putting one over on a fandom so hated that the poison is clearly running both ways.
Let’s get this clear: the Clexa fandom has NOTHING to prove to anyone, ever.
If you’re going to take the bait over everyone who says ‘we’re better than you’ or ‘our ship is better than your ship’ or whatever BS someone pulled, if you think everything this fandom did in the name of better representation and charity is just so a handful can have a field day using it to bash and smash other human beings (no matter who they are or what they do) in a juvenile display of Social Superiority – you’ve lost the thread. If this is just about numbers, you need to recognise that no matter how many ‘notes’ or ‘views’ or ‘likes’ you have, this does not equate to ‘we’re better than you.’ If it did, various Youtubers wouldn’t be reviled human beings. More equals better is a fallacy. A humiliating one, at that.
It’s also beyond the point.
The good and noble deeds of the Clexa fandom – shifting an entire industry toward better representation, raising money for a school and other charities – were not done in order to bludgeon others with the data. They were and are done, hopefully, in selfless service to others, to improve our world and our community. No one has any right to use those good things for their own personal vendetta.
The show is coming back, the cons are on and dragging is going to happen. We can have fun with that without turning it into bloody target practice. Stop caring what any blarke thinks. If they are trying to reach into your space – block them. Don’t engage, block them. Ignore. Rise above.
I was told once that the best revenge is to live well. We have nothing to prove. NOTHING.
Because if we’re not building up, making things better for ourselves, our community, for others – what are we doing?